My Birthday is Coming!

My birthday is Thursday March 31. I'm looking forward to being spoiled and will be saving all gifts that come from my wishlist for the celebrations I'll be having from Thursday til Monday as I celebrate my birthday weekend.

Send Amazon Gift Cards:

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Shop my wishlist: 

Amazon wishlist 

My wishlist contains gifts of all sizes and a big price range. If you've been admiring me but don't have enough money to really afford my attention, a small gift is a great way to earn my favor for little cost as birthday presents make me very happy.

I am also available for cash drops in NYC for boys who want to hand me cash (in a birthday card is very appropriate) and then go away so I can enjoy it. Email me to arrange it.

If you want to pay for things like mani/pedi and other bday pamperings with transfers via google wallet or gift rocket, please email me to specify how you want me spoiled on your dime.

The Lady Does Cashmeets!

In Las Vegas I was able to arrange two cash meets. The first one came to my hotel and met me in a public place. With neither of us from the area, it was pretty easy to feel comfortable meeting someone I’d not have to worry about seeing again if I didn’t want to. (Plus I had made friends with hotel security lol).

I let him come back to my room after a bit of talking. There I just sunk into Domination mode and we talked and I got ready for bed in a teasing way. I felt comfortable, in control, and pleased. Of course, I got cash (which I love and deserve). I threw him out when I was ready for bed.

My second cash meet was right before I went to the airport! Very quick: met a fellow who came to where I was having brunch. He admired my keys and handed me cash, thanking me. It felt like this was how my life should be. Being thanked for being spoiled. Calling the shots.

@unrepentantLady i was lucky enough to be on the "giving" end of Her cashpoint meet in Vegas. Very cool Domme. Very worthy i humbly submit.

— k crazy (@okcrazycool) March 8, 2016

I wasn’t able to arrange any other cashmeets on my trip. I didn’t try too hard soliciting them though because I was fairly busy.

But I do think I’d be interested in doing more in NYC. Particularly with guys just visiting.  I don’t need to meet someone who could follow me anywhere, who I might run into when I’m doing things associated with my job or my family.

Meanwhile, I considered why even though I was in Vegas briefly I was still able to get 2 meets in. I think it has to do with the fact that so many people come in to visit and they expect to lose money. The nice thing about NYC is that it’s a place a lot of people come to visit. The downside of it is that it’s a VERY big area to meet people in. Schlepping to meet folks is going to require down payments from subs. In Vegas that wasn’t required as the subs came to me where I was going to be anyway. No effort for me. As it should be.

Bringing back "Dominatrix"

So this term is super recognized in the vanilla world. But within the kink world, we usually use the term "Domme" instead. I've looked into this and couldn't find anything or anyone who seemed to know why we don't just use the term Dominatrix. Derivatives are usually based on Dominatrix and NOT Domme (ie, humiliatrix, castratrix).

Domme is a lot easier to misspell due to typos and autocorrect. Domme is less recognized outside of kink. Domme is pronounced the same as the male equivalent (Dom). In the past few weeks I've switched to using the term Dominatrix instead of Domme. For people not familiar with kink, Dominatrix is something they know and understand. Vanilla guys who message me are easily shut down by "Dominatrix" whereas for "Domme" I may hear "What's that?"

Overall, I think the change has resulted in an increase of sessions and decrease of confusion. No one in the world of kink has reacted to it.

 So. Dominatrix is in. Domme is out.

My sub's new Mistress

Recently I had the great pleasure of learning one of my subs has found himself a Dominant partner! This sub has been doing GFEs for a while on and off and I’ve become rather fond of him. I knew he liked this girl but I never dreamed that they would bond over kink. She has sent him to me for punishment and I am so delighted. He smiles when he talks about her and the pain she inflicts. His partner is experienced with BDSM and sounds like exactly what my sub needs.

Why does this make me happy? Does it mean I lose my sub? Well, because it is rare for a male sub to find a woman who shares his kink, especially not with any intensity. Most subs hide it from their wives or girlfriends like a dirty secret. For some, they are sated with merely watching porn. Others seek an online Domme to indulge with. But few seem to find the pleasure of entangling love and romance with their kink. Where worship isn’t of some distant Goddess who you have to keep balanced with your wife and soulmate. But where your soulmate IS your Goddess.

For my subs who are single and lonely, I wish this for them. For them to find happiness. I feel like a mother whose son has brought home the perfect girl.

For subs who are content to date a vanilla girl and invest some of themselves with me, I continue to enforce healthy outside relationships for them. I do not trash their significant others. I do not allow them to compromise it for me.

For my sub and his Mistress, I wish nothing but the best. Hopefully they will let me continue to play with them. I hope it lasts!