Sorry, bitches. I care.

I haven't blogged in a while because I've been caught up in things. However, I always try to keep my twitter popping.

The problem with twitter is that I have to juggle every nuance of myself into tiny little tweets. And I'm not always the same. And there are so many "findoms" on twitter just being mean bitches.

I'm not mean. I can seem mean, but I'm genuinely not. I believe a Domme should care what her subs want. If I withhold orgasm, it's because I sensed that it is what you craved. If I am cruel, it is because it is what you crave.

When a sub gives a Domme money it is because he wants something in return. It can indeed be their own satisfaction at the tribute. Or it could be because they want attention, or to feel a certain way. If a Domme is completely indifferent to this, they are not really a Domme. They might just be a bitch.

Some subs may crave being abused by someone who actually doesn't give a shit. But for me, I think that subs are people too. Many of them are strong, intelligent people who simply choose to surrender for release.

Maybe it is because I am a switch outside of this life. Maybe it is because I am just overly moral. Maybe it's because I started on reddit and not Twitter, where there is a attitude that this is indeed a service. Or maybe it's because I simply won't Domme for free.

And being a cold cruel bitch to someone who hasn't paid me is Domming for free. If I'm not being paid, I'm going to default to not treating you like shit.

Sorry, bitches. I care.