I'm looking to find some more submissives interested in FinDom specifically. For me, I generally think of two main “flavors” of FinDom:
Exploitation:
Tell me your weakness. Let me use it against you. Let me turn you into a weak submissive puddle. And when you're vulnerable, that's when I takea whatever I can from you. Your money becomes mine. You cough it up because you are weak. Afraid. Broken. Hypnotized. I don't care how you view it. Either way, I'm taking...
Exploitation initially comes in the form of a session which you pay in advance like any other session. However during it you can expect to spend more. Eventually paying for the session itself is usually not required. I find that a blind tribute doesn't really seem to fit this form, so I don't require it. However the base payment is still required before we actually have our session. Just not to open a discussion.
Worship:
Devote yourself to me. Make tributes of money because I am a Goddess and I deserve it. Spoil me. Watch me enjoy your money carelessly. You are not worthy of the luxuries money can buy. So give it to someone who is. Watch me spend. Fuel my lust for shoes, fine food, wine. Force me to constantly refill my wishlist as you derive pleasure watching your Goddess open your gifts and spend.
Worship comes in the form of tributes. Show respect by sending a tribute with your first message and I will talk with you and expect you to continuously spend. The details going forward will depend entirely on your preferences. You may enjoy funding my boot addiction, hiring me a cleaning service for my apartment, sending me wine from amazon, or simply devote part of your income to me.
About me:
I'm a girl with a professional job by day who loves domination. I use my fondness for FemDom and fetish to fuel my more expensive tastes while my day job pays for the basics.
Limits:
- I don't harm the innocent. Specifically this means that I don't talk shit about your SO or family. And I don't tolerate men who take money from them. Blackmail fantasies cannot be about harming them only about you and possibly them leaving you. I will not even fantasize about you harming your family to fuel your proclivities (I've seen disgusting amounts of this on twitter).
- I don't show my eyes.
- I don't like skype shows. I am not a cam girl. Therefore, while I am willing to get on Skype, I charge a lot for it.
- I feel very strongly about Safe, Sane, Consensual play. I include free aftercare with all sessions. I expect people to come away from time with me feeling good. Or at least satisfied as a submissive.
- I prefer financial submissives do help me in establish some budgets going in although I am aware that this removes some of the “danger.”
Looking for:
- I am looking for long term arrangements with submissives and also for short flings
Important Links
- Email for tribute: tributethelady@gmail.com
- Amazon wishlist: http://smile.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/3S20ZN5LXJUSW
- My twitter: @unrepentantLady (be prepared to see a bizarre mix of styles of domination all blended together)
- Gallery of me from leatherclad Domme to sweet professional to lavish party girl: http://imgur.com/a/Ca7Eh
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