Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Young Slaves, Mentoring, and Being a Benevolent Goddess

I haven’t been updating my blog because I’ve been busy with the holidays and with my slaves. Twitter has been a most interesting outlet for my thoughts the past few months.

Meanwhile, I’ve been training a very useful assistant. Known on twitter as @LadysBoy4, he has been a reminder, an alarm clock, phone finder, researcher and even muscle when I don’t feel like dealing with guys who annoy me. I’ve been enjoying his usefulness and I also enjoy working with a young sub who I can mentor and mold into a sub who can balance his desire to be submissive with his ability to succeed in life. I really enjoy this kind of power over someone.

I tend to attract many young slaves. Sadly most of these slaves tend to be broke. My desire to control those for good is sometimes in contrast with my desire for wealth.

How does being a benevolent Goddess even work? So many Dommes shroud themselves in an aura of bitchy meanness. They are often truly sadistic. Or worse, not actually experienced in BDSM and don’t know where the line is. They focus on this idea that the needs of their slaves do not matter.

I draw very little pleasure from doing things my slaves don’t enjoy at all. The exceptions are occasional painless punishments (such as writing lines or denying them something they like but don’t need) which I use to train. Or paying me when they don’t derive any pleasure from it.

I am happy when my slaves adore me. I don’t want to blackmail or coerce their obedience. I want them to want to give it to me. 

This isn’t to say that I can’t be cruel in sessions (or rewarding periods) for those who crave it. I enjoy giving people what they crave. Degradation is my specialty. SPH, sissification, cuckolding, forcedbi, etc. But I don’t get pleasure of doing it to someone without consent. Or to someone who really disgusts me. During the scene, we intensify our dominant and submissive traits.

That being said, I expect my online slaves to always treat me with respect. At times I speak to them as equals. Because I enjoy it. Not because they are truly equal. But because I enjoy not being an evil cunt all the time. 

Saturday, December 12, 2015

FinDom and the Search for Finsubs

I'm looking to find some more submissives interested in FinDom specifically. For me, I generally think of two main “flavors” of FinDom:

Exploitation: 
Tell me your weakness. Let me use it against you. Let me turn you into a weak submissive puddle. And when you're vulnerable, that's when I takea whatever I can from you. Your money becomes mine. You cough it up because you are weak. Afraid. Broken. Hypnotized. I don't care how you view it. Either way, I'm taking...
Exploitation initially comes in the form of a session which you pay in advance like any other session. However during it you can expect to spend more. Eventually paying for the session itself is usually not required. I find that a blind tribute doesn't really seem to fit this form, so I don't require it. However the base payment is still required before we actually have our session. Just not to open a discussion.

Worship: 
Devote yourself to me. Make tributes of money because I am a Goddess and I deserve it. Spoil me. Watch me enjoy your money carelessly. You are not worthy of the luxuries money can buy. So give it to someone who is. Watch me spend. Fuel my lust for shoes, fine food, wine. Force me to constantly refill my wishlist as you derive pleasure watching your Goddess open your gifts and spend.
Worship comes in the form of tributes. Show respect by sending a tribute with your first message and I will talk with you and expect you to continuously spend. The details going forward will depend entirely on your preferences. You may enjoy funding my boot addiction, hiring me a cleaning service for my apartment, sending me wine from amazon, or simply devote part of your income to me.

About me: 
I'm a girl with a professional job by day who loves domination. I use my fondness for FemDom and fetish to fuel my more expensive tastes while my day job pays for the basics. 

Limits:
  • I don't harm the innocent. Specifically this means that I don't talk shit about your SO or family. And I don't tolerate men who take money from them. Blackmail fantasies cannot be about harming them only about you and possibly them leaving you. I will not even fantasize about you harming your family to fuel your proclivities (I've seen disgusting amounts of this on twitter).
  • I don't show my eyes.
  • I don't like skype shows. I am not a cam girl. Therefore, while I am willing to get on Skype, I charge a lot for it.
  • I feel very strongly about Safe, Sane, Consensual play. I include free aftercare with all sessions. I expect people to come away from time with me feeling good. Or at least satisfied as a submissive.
  • I prefer financial submissives do help me in establish some budgets going in although I am aware that this removes some of the “danger.”

Looking for:
  • I am looking for long term arrangements with submissives and also for short flings 

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Thursday, November 12, 2015

Sorry, bitches. I care.

I haven't blogged in a while because I've been caught up in things. However, I always try to keep my twitter popping.

The problem with twitter is that I have to juggle every nuance of myself into tiny little tweets. And I'm not always the same. And there are so many "findoms" on twitter just being mean bitches.

I'm not mean. I can seem mean, but I'm genuinely not. I believe a Domme should care what her subs want. If I withhold orgasm, it's because I sensed that it is what you craved. If I am cruel, it is because it is what you crave.

When a sub gives a Domme money it is because he wants something in return. It can indeed be their own satisfaction at the tribute. Or it could be because they want attention, or to feel a certain way. If a Domme is completely indifferent to this, they are not really a Domme. They might just be a bitch.

Some subs may crave being abused by someone who actually doesn't give a shit. But for me, I think that subs are people too. Many of them are strong, intelligent people who simply choose to surrender for release.

Maybe it is because I am a switch outside of this life. Maybe it is because I am just overly moral. Maybe it's because I started on reddit and not Twitter, where there is a attitude that this is indeed a service. Or maybe it's because I simply won't Domme for free.

And being a cold cruel bitch to someone who hasn't paid me is Domming for free. If I'm not being paid, I'm going to default to not treating you like shit.

Sorry, bitches. I care.

Monday, October 19, 2015

My Glorious Ass

I have a great ass. This glorious porcelain ass is to be admired and worshiped.
 



Ass worship is one of the many femdom flavors I offer. When you talk about worship, know that the ass you will be serving is one of curvy white goodness. 

Thongs that ride up between these round cheeks benefit from the pleasant zone three musk even with only a day of wear.

Or just admire it because it is nice.

Saturday, October 17, 2015

My New Sissy Slut!

I have acquired a delightful new pet! In addition to a session with some of my all time favorite kinks (sph, forced bi, sissification), this new pet is excited about me sharing pictures online! I had quite a bit of fun requesting pictures and using some from our session to make an album. Which will be shared on reddit, here, and twitter.
The sissy poses to attract men. And to amuse me.
I've included one picture here to entice those of my readers who are fans of such a thing. But since it is not for everyone, I will defer to the full imgur album. In that album, you can also find an except from our session! And plenty of pics of my sissy.

Check Out the Sissy's Full Album


We're looking forward to sharing a lot more and hope we get a lot of comments from men who want to fuck her! Feel free to message her on reddit

And of course, if you're interested in being turned into a sissy by me, reach out to me on reddit, twitter or right here through the contact box. 

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Food and FinDom

I have devised a fun findom arrangement that will enable my love of fine food and drink: Essentially, the sub tributes to me his entire food budget for a period of time. During that time he will subsist on bread, water, and that old college staple: ramen.

Meanwhile thanks to his sacrifice I will be enjoying more lavish meals than normal and sharing pictures of them with my sub. Living in NYC I eat out and order in a lot. And there is a wide variety to choose from.
A lobster roll I enjoyed recently. One sample of the kind of dining I will enjoy thanks your sacrifice
I think this is an interesting way to underscore a financial sacrifice for one's goddess. You starve while I eat luxuriously. Or sometimes I simply grab a yogurt and smile as you gnaw on your slice of bread.

Of course, this offer is only eligible to subs who will not be impacting family's or SOs. And the tribute must be made in Google wallet so that I can use it to actually buy food.  As with most findom transactions, initial tribute is required to demonstrate intent and to make it worth my time to even start planning the details with a sub. As with any tribute, it does not guarantee an arrangement. But it does guarantee a reply.

I will post an ad soon on reddit but for now, you can take advantage of this fascinating offer by emailing a tribute (amazon gift card is ok) and a letter describing your interest to tributethelady@gmail.com.


Monday, October 5, 2015

Updated Payment Info!

Google Wallet

I now accept Google Wallet. This is because my Amazon income was starting to get out of hand. I didn't realize I would make this much money this fast! If you purchase a service over $20, I usually offer 5% off if you pay with Google Wallet for digital services (unless I neglect to include it in the ad as I am running a better sale).

PayPal via Gyft

I also accept Gyft giftcards. Gyft is a service that allows you to use PayPal to buy a giftcard for a fee. Then you send me the gift card. This is the only way I will accept PayPal due to their very strict rules against paying for adult transactions with it. I am not currently even accepting PayPal for gifts. With Gyft you can always send me Amazon cards but I also accept CVS and DSW cards as I shop at those places frequently.

Amazon Always Accepted

Meanwhile, you can always send me giftcards via Amazon.com. I regularly order from Amazon everything from cleaning products to music to clothes to toys. Just make sure you leave the message on the card blank!

International Payments

Amazon.com can be used for international payments as well. Just google the price conversion and input the correct amount in your local currency to convert to my price. Amazon will convert it and give me a giftcard I can use. Just make sure you are using amazon.com and not .de, .co.uk or another foreign Amazon site.

Buying Safety

While I have no interest in violating your privacy or sharing your personal information, you should always be aware that using your personal accounts to send payments may leave your real name on them. Set up a separate Google Wallet or Amazon account to make payments. Leave messages on cards blank and use a fake sender name (preferably something I will recognize).

Refunds

I have never had to issue a refund but should it come up, I will likely want to do it with an Amazon card. However, rolling the extra funds over into a future session is a better outcome. 

Thursday, October 1, 2015

First Wishlist Gift!

This purple teddy is from my wishlist!
I won't divulge too many details about who this is from but it sure was a nice treat! This cute purple teddy fit perfectly and my tits feel delightful in it. It will definitely make an appearance in upcoming ads. Plus the person who bought it for me has earned the Lady's favor!

Meanwhile, I love the surprise. Even though I knew something had be purchased, I didn't know what or when it would arrive. I'm looking forward to taking over some finsubs and making them buy me things but nothing beats a good surprise.

Finally, one does not have to purchase me things as a sub. You can be a sugar daddy, a show off, or just plain love to see my smile. The act of giving a woman gifts is an amazing thing. It means one thing from an alpha male and another from a beta.

So anyway, you can give me tributes/gifts via Google Wallet (which I now accept) or Amazon gift card (.com only; I need USD) to tributethelady@gmail.com. You can also find my Amazon wishlist under that email address.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Trusted Seller - Verifications

Well, it seems like only a short time ago that I was an unverified little kitten. And now I am a TRUSTED seller on /r/SexSells. Meanwhile, I have some pleasing reviews, lot's of repeat business, and I now do business pretty regularly between ads. Most of my buyers message me for more sessions.

Verification List



Read My /r/SexSells Reviews


Saturday, September 26, 2015

My wishlist and Tributes!

So I have finely crafted a wishlist to expose my tastes for the fine and fun. Not just things I need (yes, I need a new TV and xbox; they are fried) but also things that would be fun presents. Wine, wine glasses, mixers (since you can't send tequila lol). A bit of lingerie and the occasional toy.

My wishlist is not just a list of things I want. It is an expression of things I want from subs. Expensive, sexy, and fun. But I also like gifts of all sizes. And you can never go wrong with gift cards.

My Wishlist!


Make sure you leave a note on your gift with your email address and tell me why you felt compelled to buy me a gift.

pamper me!

And remember, you can always send giftcards to tributethelady@gmail.com (can you believe that was available?!). I accept giftcards from:

  • Amazon.com (only.com!)
  • Macy's
  • DSW
  • Sephora
  • Starbucks
  • CVS 
  • GameStop
You can send me giftcards via amazon.com or via gyft.com or any other creative means. 

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Twitter!

I made a twitter!

@unrepentantLady


Twitter lets me explore some very interesting avenues for FemDom and explore my fascination with FinDom. It's a fascinating venue for finding new subs and just talking about my whims.

I'm juggling a lot of twitter accounts on my phone now. Work, professional, private, private/adult, /r/FetishSelling promotional sub (@FetishSelling) so I really hope I don't get them mixed up.

Sunday, September 13, 2015

Laughs for Cleavage

Today only, send me a funny joke or image that actually makes me laugh out loud and get a pic of my smile and my cleavage.

Content should not just be ripped from /r/jokes, /r/funny, front page of imgur etc. I'm already on there.

Why? Why not.

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Free Aftercare Now Available

Just because your session is over doesn't mean we still can't talk! 

It turns out I just feel weird when a session ends abruptly. Especially if the buyer ended it earlier than expected due to "being tired", "having a headache" or just disappearing. Have I pushed them too far? Were they not having fun? Did they orgasm so hard they were injured? Should I be worried?!

Usually my sessions end great and with praise. But even in those cases, I like to reflect on the session. Get feedback. And just wrap things up.

So from now on, unless I have to run to another session, "aftercare" is a complimentary service included in all my sessions. Once our time is up we can keep chatting about the session (in a meta sense) and you can "recover" from being dominated, or we can just relax.

This aftercare is a reflection of the need to "come down" after a scene. It is not meant to extend your session. It is as much for me as it is for you which is why I offer it for free. 

Monday, September 7, 2015

Look what I just bought!

I've started to spend more time going into cheap clothing stores to get bargains on panties and lingerie and it totally paid off today! I don't have any hosiery to connect this garter belt to but I'll be ordering some soon.

Meanwhile, I'm happily doing kik sessions all day as a dominatrix. Between apartment cleaning and baking that is. Too bad I don't have a local slave to do house work for me...  Hopefully I can post some new panties later too.
I also bought another cutesier garter belt as well which I hope to pair with some panty pics and more playful session adverts.

Saturday, September 5, 2015

My webcam takes better pictures

A selfie stick, a strained quad, and hundreds of selfies later, I finally have to admit that standing on my desk chair and bending over for my webcam yields the best pics. Unless I have someone else take them.

This pair and many others like it are up for grabs!They are $30 with shipping since the panties themselves are very inexpensive. I have a store near me I can get more from on demand and they are fairly comfortable. 
Meanwhile I have to make the area behind my desk more presentable. At least I've managed to find a good angle to show off my curves. Look at them juicy thighs! That narrow waist!
I also just got a box of yellow bubble envelopes for shipping that I'm eager to use. And figured out how to get imgur to work for me.



Kik off Labor Day Weekend with a Saturday Sexting Sale!

I just love getting frisky with this phone! So I'm having a sale on sexting all day today!

  • Minimum session length: 10 minutes for $10
  • Sale Vanilla Session Price: $25 for 30 minutes, $50 for an hour
  • Sale FemDom Session Price: $23 for 30 minutes, $46 for an hour
  • Cock rating: Kik rates for live chat ratings, $10 for email/reddit rating
A sexting session is a steady stream of steamy texts and includes the occasional suggestive picture. Pictures are sent at my discretion. This is pretty standard for most of my kik sessions as I find I'd rather put all my energy into text instead of wasting your minutes posing for blurry pics with my camera. 

I love fetishes (especially unusual ones), roleplaying, BDSM, showing off my feet, and am open to pretty much whatever else you can dream up. 

Weekend GFE also available! 
$80, goes til Monday night EST and includes both spicy and non-sexual chatting.
GFE may be FemDom or vanilla


I am also offering FREE addons for foot/shoe fetishes and BBW enthusiasts. These include many more extra pics, a willingness to pose for requested pics and a general eagerness to fulfill specific requests at little to no extra cost. These particular fetishes are the ones I am most comfortable catering to with pictures as it is easiest to take. 

Friday, September 4, 2015

Heart-Shaped Lock

I bought these locks a while ago for locking cuffs and collars. They are lightweight and cute. And perfect for keeping a man in chastity or collared. Since I have a bunch, I thought they would be fun to sell for key-holding.
You can lock one onto a chastity cage or lockable collar or cuff while you are being dominated by me. There are two keys. I can keep one, both or none depending on your willingness to give yourself to me and how tense you will be about getting out on time.  These keys represent a unique prop I can use in my domination sessions.

The price of the key will depend on how much attention you need and how much holding of the keys I will do. Me keeping a key is a second thing one buys and therefore is priced higher. The lock with 2 keys is $35. Shipping is not included.

Safety: these locks are mostly decorative/symbolic. The average adult man should be able to rip themselves free without the key or can cut them with a small bolt cutter or other man tool. You should always be aware of the safety risks of practicing self-bondage and have a means of escape.

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

The First Pair Throw Back!

I found this old picture from my webcam of me in the same thong I used as my "first pair". Look at dat ass! So round and juicy! This pic is over three years old but I assure you my ass hasn't gone anywhere.


Thursday, August 27, 2015

FemDom and Panties

I love all kinds of FemDom. Actually all kinds of BDSM but I prefer to Domme when I get paid lol. I do cater to many fetishes and avenues of Domination but today I want to talk about panties.

I have many fetishes but my favorites are the ones that really only apply to a male sub. Crossdressing and feminization plays well with my desire to sell some panties. The idea of chastising a little panty-sniffing pervert for playing with my dirty panties is quite delicious. Making him smell them, lick them, wear them. Especially wear them.

The sub should worship my scent. No matter how dirty, discolored, stained, crusty, covered in grool, whatever. My little panty pervert should be cherishing them. And simultaneously ashamed of his worship of them. He's a sick little fuck. But at least he knows his place.


Monday, August 24, 2015

What's in a Cock Rating?

A cock rating is an in depth analysis of a cock judged by pictures. I generally do it via email or even reddit message. You send me pics, I send you a few paragraphs of what I think. It contains:

  1. First reaction
  2. Comments on what makes it great. Including what girls will think and tell their friends.
  3. Notes on what positions work well and how you can be good in bed with it
  4. Advice on how to behave based on what your cock is like.
  5. Rating on a scale of 1-10. And a note on what informed the rating.

The rating is generally between 250 and 300 words long. I spend a lot of time thinking about the cock and usually admiring it. I believe that my tips will make the world a better place.

Variations

SPH Edition

The small penis humiliation edition is often mocking, insinuates that the fellow cannot have me or any girl. Lauds larger men, etc.

Kik Edition (SPH or Standard)

We hop on kik and talk about it! You send me live pics or video. Ask questions, and just have a back and forth.

Current Rates

Email: $10
Kik: $1/min on kik. $5 minimum.

Want me to rate face and body too? Add another $10 and get as much attention paid to the rest of your features as I do to your cock (that's another 250-300 words).

Friday, August 21, 2015

I've Been Busy!

Ok panties are boring and a pain. I don't get main responses to posts and my body can be unpredictable. A little imbalance that would be otherwise unnoticeable can leave a weird scent in the panties. The period could appear. A seller could want me to wait to send until they're available (I actually got a down payment from someone on panties to send next month).

I'll still sell them on and off but I think my bread and butter is going to be other services. Skype chats (fully clothed), sexy texting via kik. FemDom GFEs, cock ratings and more. I hope to incorporate panties into the Domming and I already have interest in this stuff and I get a lot more responses to my posts.

I've officially been paid for various things none of which has made me feel dirty or shady and all of which have been fun. With my interest in domination, there is less demand for me to get naked on camera (I'm shy! and I think I look hotter dressed) and more demand for my humiliation skills.

Overall, I'm enjoying being a sex seller. And I feel good that I'm helping guys with unusual fetishes. No one should be ashamed of their kinks.

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Officially offering kik sessions

Small Penis Humiliation (SPH), Anyone?
I've been Domming men via text for a couple years and I have gotten quite good at it. I should really be charging for this service. Details of everything I can do will be posted here (along with some sexy Domme pics) some time this week but meanwhile I have been posting kik sessions for sale on reddit.

I'm mostly looking to be a Domme and don't plan to send a bunch of naked pics. Domination is a mind game. The definition of "humiliatrix" on urban dictionary seems to suit me. Also, I want to have some fun and awkwardly posing for pics doesn't do much for me. I'd much rather make a guy send me pictures.

Meanwhile, I am now extra insulted by the men who ask for kik chats and sexting on the dating site I frequent. They are asking me to give away a service that women rightly charge for. That is a site to date not a site to troll for women to jerk off to. I have absolutely no problem with such activities but frankly, if you want to get off with someone who has no attachment to you, you should be paying them.

I'm very excited about this and hope I can hold my own against the lovely ladies who are sharing a ton of pics and vids in their sessions.

Meanwhile, contact me here or PM me on reddit to set up a kik session. I'm currently sticking with the standard $1/min rate and still only taking Amazon gift cards.

Verified on Reddit

I am verified at
/r/SexSells
/r/Panties4Sale
/r/FetishSelling

And awaiting verifications for a few others. This is a big step and with it came a welcome into /r/SellerCircle which is a private but very welcoming place for sellers to talk and get advice. So far, I've been blown away by the community and how much they (we!) support each other.



Saturday, August 15, 2015

Dominatrix - For Sale?

Bodice, bra, flogger, and my Domming necklace
I'm really thinking about Domming. I miss it. It was actually what I was thinking about doing for pocket money before the panties thing. Just sit on the couch, watch some TV, and put some sissy in his place? Sounds delightful.

As I browse /r/sexsells I can see what kinds of things other gals offer. And I wonder if I can compete. Sure I think I can be great, especially as a Humiliatrix, but I am also not really looking to send naked pics of myself or do cam work. I am not looking to sell my body. I'm looking to sell my abilities.

I got pretty turned on this morning thinking about sending a panty sniffing sissy my dirty thong and making him send me back pics of him wearing it. I miss scolding a man for daring to make eye contact with me. Domination is a mind game. Sure I can wield a crop or flogger as well as any Dom(me). Sure I look badass in a bodice and heels. But I prefer to get in someone's head and say the words he needs to hear to put him in his place.

So, can I get into this game? Can I do it with my clothes on?  And what will my alias be?

I'm thinking "Lady Lawless". I was gonna use that for the panty sales too but I think it was taken on one of the sites I registered at so I just used the name of the blog on reddit and FL. But I like the idea of being addressed as "My Lady".

Friday, August 14, 2015

For Sale - Artfully Torn Thong

I buy pretty cheap thongs. I tend to discolor them from all the sweat and other fluids a juicy girl produces. So it isn't worth it to buy anything fancy. For the same reason I usually stick to dark colors.

These usually rip along the seam but this pair did something more exciting. It started to rip itself in more provocative places in the rear.
I'm particularly fond of how my pussy fills out the gusset in this shot. 

The idea of cumming in my panties has me wet already so I sure hope someone contacts me to take advantage of these or really anything I can have an excuse to get filthy in.


Thursday, August 13, 2015

For Sale - Me Wearing Men's Boxers

These are real men's boxers but they've only ever been worn by me of course.

Ages ago, my brother gave me a pack of boxers. Said he had bought them and didn't like them so I could have the rest of the unworn pairs to sleep in if I wanted. However, I learned that men's underwear fits weird! They are lose and tight in all the wrong places! 

But they are also quirky and different. And I could wear them for you!



In these pics I'm in some heels and I have the boxers riding high on my waist so the gusset is against my actual crotch. These are also some of the widest shots I've ever posted so you can see more of me than before. 

I will not be buying more of these so consider them limited edition. Only a few pairs so get 'em while they're hot. 
They even have that hole thing. Boxers are weird.

 Meanwhile, let's hope I figured out how to make an album actually hidden on imgur. But these are less racy anyway. I've worn less at beaches.

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

I got my car back!

They found it! I have it!

This has distracted from my whole panty selling business. Instead of a new sales post tonight, I spent a while getting the car back and waiting around for police. It won't be until Thursday that I really can get back into posting. But I'm enjoying lurking in /r/usedpanties and commenting on some of the gal's posts. It's neat to see what other people are selling. Though I'm startled by their youth! When I was 18, I wasn't exactly innocent but... or maybe I would have. I was having the cyber sex in the MMOs back then....

Saturday, August 8, 2015

So My Car Was Stolen?

Today was a roller coaster this morning with me having my first sale. Then not. Then a reserved pair. Then still unsure. And that would be the  topic of this post (actually I already drafted two posts on the roller coaster this morning).

But that was all overshadowed by the fact that my car appears to be stolen. More likely illegally towed since, though not parked in front of a driveway, it was parked in front of some rusty old vehicle in a trailer. And said vehicle has been replaced by a dumpster. I suspect the owners of the house decided to suddenly feel that they were going to use the clearly non-functional ancient maybe driveway and had it towed privately without going through the police. Which you're not supposed to do.

So anyway, this has nothing to do with panty selling. But I did work up a major sweat walking back and forth from the spot to my place and then down to the precinct. My nether regions feel like a filthy swamp and my panties are gross and faintly skidded from the amount of sweat trickling down my crack (for sale?). (I'm not comfortable posting scat pics publicly yet).

On the bright side I did acquire UPS envelopes for future shipping on my way home. So I'm ready for action.


Note: the thong in question is listed for sale on reddit. Ass and gusset shots available there.

Friday, August 7, 2015

It's a Learning Process

I'm still new at this! So I figured out the imgur thing (I think?) and had to start over. Hopefully, if anyone notices they won't think too much of it (I'm not spamming! I'm just dumb!). I really hate coming across as a newb. I'm the kind of person that tries to practice posts and preview everything before the world can see it. Well, my dedicated readers will know what happened there.

I've gotten a couple tips. And I have the resources to learn more as I go. Let's hope that I can smooth things out before too long.

Meanwhile, I'm starting to really enjoy masturbating in my underwear. Imagining that I'm making something hot for someone while I do it. 

Thursday, August 6, 2015

I prefer a personal connection...

So I was getting used to having my picture on reddit and to fetLife. But imgur is a whole new creature. It's not full of buyers and fetishists who are excited  to see me. It's full of strangers who aren't involved. People analyzing and judging me.

They say any publicity is good publicity. But I'm not an exhibitionist. The idea of selling appeals to my idea of forming single one-on-one symbiotic connections with buyers. The few promo posts are meant to be seen by prospective buyers and those in the fetish community.

So obviously I posted on imgur because that's what you do to sell on reddit. And lot's of girls are posting much more provocative pics than myself. Goodness I have seen a lot more close ups of labia and nipples than I really needed to! Anyway, imgur makes it really awkward to figure out how to make the images more private. Before I know it, hundreds of folks are looking and posting comments. Which is weird. The selling thing directs my panties to an individual. Someone to whom I make a personal connection. The posting however directs to a crowd. Perhaps a bigger crowd than I expected.

However, I look good and you can't tell who I am from them. And I did get a few hits which probably came from people looking. Probably just curious or hoping to see more. But who knows, perhaps someone fell in love with me.

For buyers, you can know that I am not one to make a spectacle of myself. I don't enjoy just posing and having folks see me. I enjoy the idea of you seeing me. Just you. The one who can smell me on that cotton. Who I wore them for.

Will you be that someone?

For Sale - Wild One!


I need to get rid of these. They are simply too small. They ride up my ass and dig into my hips. Pressing tightly against every part of me. I can barely fit the head of my magic wand in them to masturbate.

I'm a little shy about these pics. I feel like you can see a little too close to my asshole and too much of the sides of my mons.

But I feel this will appeal to either the buyers interest in larger/bottom-heavy/BBW gals or  the fellows into a little more ass involvement.

For the right buyer I'll be putting up with these little babies caressing me oh so close. This weekend I could be sweating, masturbating and doing who knows what else in them. And on Monday they could be in the mail heading to you!

This pair is also the first I will be posting on reddit in the welcoming sub-reddit /r/usedpanties. I've been lurking there for over a week. The moderator there has really impressed me with organization and dedication to quality so I'm looking forward to spending a lot of time there. And hopefully meet some panty partners who could become dedicated buyers.

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Full of Crop?

I was going through my "private" folder on my phone and I found this little gem showing off my crop.

The crop is fun because it's not a toy most of the gals probably have laying around. And yes, it's for sexy times and not for horseback riding.

Monday, August 3, 2015

The Promo Pic

I wanted a product pic of myself and my wonderfully round ass with the name of the blog on it. I had to figure out a way to get the name in the pic (holding up a sign doesn't work as well when you're also wrestling to get a good ass pic). I found an old badge from a professional conference I was at and used the holder. I feel pretty clever.

Then there was the struggle to take it. I dug out an old broken selfie stick, set timers and worked up a serious sweat twisting and turning to get this shot.

the URL should be bigger and clearer in full sized images. 


I think it turned out ok. My ass looks really round and you can see the way it my hips curve back into my waist.

I'll get better pictures over time but for now, I like this one.

For Sale - Two-Sided and Discolored

This pair is weird. I keep putting them on inside out because the gusset is the same on both sides. Right down the way it has discolored itself over time. You're looking at the outside of gusset here. On a clean pair.

Needless to say, I'm a little embarrassed when I wear them. They are among the pairs that I wear when I'm in pants and I don't expect anyone to see them. But they are also among the more interesting pairs I am eager to sell.

Imagine one day of wear on one side and then reversing them for the second day of wear. Imagine the history behind them. Facing the intimate gusset out to the world and then pressing the public side against my most private of areas.

I am already so fascinated about creating interesting products for buyers.  I'm not interested in filling the web with tawdry pics of my body. I'm interested in selling the sights, smells, and stories of dirty panties.



I'm on FetLife!

I can be contacted through FetLife now as well! I don't frequent the site much in personal life despite my personal proclivities but I feel that my familiarity with kink may be an extra selling point. And that I can pimp the blog and the product a bit there. I'll have to keep from being distracted by some of the hotter sounding groups and try to focus on groups for selling directly and for various fetishes which utilize the sights and smells of the dirty panties.

Check out my FetLife profile!


Buyers can contact me on FetLife directly but will likely be siphoned in email so I can handle conversations from my phone. This is to make sure I am handling customer service as effectively as possible.

Don't forget, I'm on reddit as well! Often lurking in /r/usedpanties. Message me anywhere to start planning your purchase!

Sunday, August 2, 2015

The First Pair - End of the Day

This was a demo pair I used to test the quality and advertise my product. I wore them most of a summer weekend. During that time, I mostly just cleaned my apartment, worked on this blog and masturbated (on my stomach with a magic wand). They received the best of the best. Their final test will be opening them in a few days and seeing how well the scent was preserved in the packaging. Or someone could buy them and be my first actual sale.

They are an older pair I've probably had for years with a small rip on the seam. They are a nobo cotton thong which is my favorite brand for comfort and cuteness. They remained a bit damp most of the weekend since I simply cannot stop what my body does in them.

I'm not really into exhibition so I probably won't post too many pics of me like this but I am up for sending them to legitimate buyers after they have made a transaction.

And now without further ado..

on my back, right before taking them off

balanced on the exercise ball

I'm not exactly a dirty panty sommelier but I have to admit they smell pretty. Strong but weirdly pleasant. After this experiment, I'm really excited about becoming a seller. This is a way to profit from something I am already doing. But I'm also excited about the idea of providing this to folks who will truly appreciate it. 

Prices and Participation May Vary


My Commitment

  • Honesty. I am who I say I am, my product is what I claim it is, and what I did to prepare it is what I said it would be
  • Anonymity. For both myself and my buyers.
  • No judgments. Unless your kink is that you would like me to judge your perversions. 

How to Buy

Arranging a purchase is a personal conversation with me directly. The only rule is to make sure you stay on track. I've heard a lot of stories about guys who just want to talk and hear about the product but have no intention of buying. I intend to use this blog to post a lot of general stuff so make sure to look around and get to know me from that and focus our conversations on getting the product in your hands. I don't want to waste your time and I don't want you to waste mine.

You can use the contact form on the side. You can  message "unrepentant_panties" on reddit. You can PM me on FetLife. Just tell me what you're looking for and I'll work with you to get it in your hands. 

Payment

I am currently only accepting payment in Amazon giftcards. This can be done anonymously and instantly via email. Payment including shipping costs is required in full before product will be prepared unless I happen to have the product. And then full payment will be required before shipping.

Shipping

At the moment I'm totally new. So I'm looking for advice on how to get it to you while maintaining both of our privacy!

Product will definitely be shipped in a Ziploc that has excess air vacuumed out. Packaging will protect your privacy. And you will be emailed updates the moment your product goes into "production" until it's in the mail. 

Additional Services

  • Masturbate in panties (when available, generally weekends only; I'm not a machine)
  • Additional day of wear (up to 1 day; product is potent and I can't be getting stares on the subway or whispers at work because of stank!)
  • Special requests (excreta, insertion, other activities)
  • Older underwear (while supplies last)
  • Fetish and kink requests (I am fetish friendly and practice bdsm so I have gear and know-how for special requests)
  • In the future I look forward to selling everything from other pieces of lingerie to old sex toys!

Limits

This is to sell my panties. Beyond what I post on this blog (which shall be plenty) the following list are no-nos. No amount of cajoling will convince me to give out or sell:
  • Personal info about me
  • Pictures of me beyond what you need to see of the product (after prepping my first pair, I am confident that stands on it's own). No naked pics or pics of me that don't have to do with the product. No pics of my face. 
  • Meetings, phone calls, video chats. 
  • Providing additional pictures of me or products that are not leading to a transaction or part of a transaction.

Early Bird Pricing

Minimum price for the first pair is currently $30+shipping. This is a cotton thong (my regular underwear) with approximately a full day of wear. All products will meet my standards but since my life and body varies from day-to-day, it may take more or less than a full day of wear to create a basic product for you.

I know my product is good so I expect to raise prices and charge a premium for extras so take advantage of the early-bird prices now!

Who Am I?

I knew this business was for me when I heard about it. I've been exceptionally sweaty and well-scented since I was a teen. But I've also been blessed with a pleasant taste and aroma (according to everyone who has ever interacted with my body). My "thick" hips and thighs contribute to the "heat" in my nether-regions which aid the vitality of my product.

Plus, I've always been very fetish friendly. I am a practitioner of BDSM in my private life with a very broad range of tastes.

Finally, I am a native New Yorker in my 20s. At the time of writing, I am single, though sexually active. I have a full time day job.

My Attributes

  •  36D breasts
  • 35in waist
  • 45in ass
  • white skin ("pale", "porcelain", "milky")
  • medium brown hair with blonde highlights. 
  • black pubic hair, short, in a small patch
  • ??? eyes

Other interests 

  • Cooking and baking. I am a hobby cake decorator. 
  • Science fiction, I love Star Wars, Star Trek, BSG, Firefly, etc.
  • Netflix binges!
While these last few interests probably don't add much to the product, it does tell you a bit more about who I am and give you the confidence that I'm a real and genuine person. And explain why the product has a smear of frosting on it on occasion! I do bake naked on occasion, especially in the summer.

The first pair

Just seeing what it feels like to wear panties and carelessly sweat and, uh, secrete into them is odd. Especially in this heat. I've masturbated in panties before but never with the intention of getting them all wet. Even so, the time and ability to do that particular trick is going to definitely only be a weekend affair.

They smell hot. I see the appeal.
Now, to investigate how to sell such a product. Probably not this particular pair unless I bravely acquire a buyer in the next few hours before I have to take them off and freshen up for a date tonight....

Anyway, I've always been a private person so putting up pics like this is super weird. But it's either this or become a Dominatrix. And that seems like a lot more work and lot less anonymous.

Up next, how I plan to get these in the hands--and under the noses--of the people